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Is mentoring worthwhile?
By Jan Shimano | December 27, 2008
The definition of a mentor, according to Webster’s dictionary is a ‘wise and trusted adviser’. He is more than just a person we occasionally discuss our problems with. He is a person who has a vested interest in our success and will do whatever he can to ensure that we reach our goals.
In the majority of cases the mentor would be the older person. That is not necessarily always the truth though. It could be that an older person is needing to learn something new that most young people already know. For instance, the majority of young persons can find their way around the Internet without any trouble. Older people, who perhaps have only just purchased a computer, have no idea where to begin.
Say for instance, that is the situation. You are not knowledgeable about finding your way around on the Internet and yet this is necessary for the business you want to get into. None of your close friends have a clue either. So what to do? The first thing would be to look for a younger person who was having success in the market that you want to enter.
The decision has been made – you need a mentor. Now you have to find that person. The first thing you need to do is ask your friends and family. In this scenario you are going to be looking for a person to help you with doing business over the internet. So be specific. You don’t need referrals for people good at public speaking for instance. At least, not yet!
Take the time to think back on the people you have met in the past. Perhaps they might not be able to help you personally but what about their grown or teenage children. It’s a sure bet that most teenagers know more about the internet than us older folks. Don’t be afraid to ask – the worst thing that can happen is that they say no. If they don’t agree to mentor you, don’t take this personally. It needs to be mutually agreed upon for it to work.
Just keep on looking and the right person will come along!
Whatever you do, please do not think that there is something negative about wanting or needing a mentor. The most brilliant people of the past have nearly always had mentors. The great thing about a mentoring program, is that when you become proficient at what you need to learn, you then become knowledgeable and are in turn able to mentor others.
It puts you on the fast track to success more than any other way I can think of and a great deal of satisfaction comes to both parties involved. You can also make lifetime friends. It is extremely rewarding for all concerned.
Over the years, I have been blessed with many mentors. I credit my success to their training and without their knowledge and guidance I know I would not be the successful person I am today. I cannot thank them enough for how they have enriched my life.
Jan Shimano
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